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What "turns you off"?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by whitecoffee1, Jul 7, 2019.

  1. whitecoffee1

    whitecoffee1 Moderator Staff Member


    Feet are only good for walking .... and running.
  2. curiousFred

    curiousFred Trusted.Member

    What turns me off are a multitude of assholes who ring at dinner time wanting to sell you some fucking thing or other.
    Know all people, who must always be right.
    My wife always interrupting me when I try to say something.
    I could go on, but you get the idea I think.
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  3. wadwad

    wadwad Trusted Member

    feet lmao
  4. CatholickBoy

    CatholickBoy Trusted.Member

    SCAT...….don't get it, don't wanna get it, don't even like my own movements let alone someone else's. Just not my thing. There are more but this is the biggest turn off.
  5. Gideon

    Gideon Trusted.Member

    Porn in which every other spoken word is "FUCK" :mad::(
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  6. Gideon

    Gideon Trusted.Member

    I agree with you 100%! I think it's disgusting.
  7. londonboy49

    londonboy49 Trusted.Member

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  8. Zarp

    Zarp Trusted.Member

    People who think a relationship is all about playing games with another persons emotions!!
  9. stepdad22

    stepdad22 Graduated from the school of sexual perversions . Staff Member

    The fucking fuck police .
  10. LoneWolf89

    LoneWolf89 Trusted Member

    Smoking. Gross terrible habit.
  11. Danny Boy 1966

    Danny Boy 1966 Trusted.Member

    I totally agree, that is nasty!!!
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  12. Danny Boy 1966

    Danny Boy 1966 Trusted.Member

    When someone comes to visit without calling first, specially when they show up after dinner and we are relaxing.
    I really get turned off when a telemarketer calls to try and sell me crap, at 10pm when I'm in bed!!
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  13. SecretWishes

    SecretWishes Moderator Staff Member

    Turn offs... for the most part, it's when one of these happen:
    * Complaining without presenting a solution
    * Proud ignorance
    * Faux intelligence
    * Rudeness (Fastest way to get me to dislike you... or hate you if the rudeness was really bad)
    * ... and number 1 turn-off (in here at least) pushing people just to get your rocks off without at least SOME consideration for consequences... If you want something to get off to, don't potentially risk the lives (and/or reputations) of near total strangers (like nearly everyone here)

    Ok... rant over... for now...


    p.s. if you want to know what turns me off (or on) in the bedroom, you have to answer my question: What is the key to success and the major cause of regret?
  14. curiousFred

    curiousFred Trusted.Member

    Secret wishes I cannot give you the key to success, we ll have to find out own individual one.
    But for regret, we all learn about that when it is too late.
  15. SecretWishes

    SecretWishes Moderator Staff Member

    I suppose it's true that there are individual keys to success and sources of regret, but I've found that there is one key in particular that, no matter your background, seems to be always there. Whether or not the person is even aware of it, the key is there... before achieving success and after the regrets begin, it's still there. It was a bit strange for me when I was given that... lesson? no... bit of truth.

    Ever since then, I've implemented it in many facets of my life in preparation, execution, and the aftermath of any event. I've also observed that this key is a common theme in MANY of the successful people's lives all over the world.

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  16. TriadSibling

    TriadSibling Moderator Staff Member

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  17. londonboy49

    londonboy49 Trusted.Member

    Although comments to posts are welcome it really annoys that many of them are only racking up posts without contributing to the overall post.
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  18. Mary Smyth

    Mary Smyth Bi Swinging family feel free to chat

    Soft core porn, too much perfume or aftershave like nice body smell. hate the word love as it is too messed up during a fuck.
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  19. kshs5992

    kshs5992 New Member

    Bathroom play
  20. man73

    man73 Trusted Member

    During the moment, pain. While the pain/pleasure centers are close in the brain, pain makes the mister go soft. Now people who are willfully ignorant, rude, etc. I have no time for them.