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What "turns you off"?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by whitecoffee1, Jul 7, 2019.

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  1. EggHead

    EggHead Trusted.Member

    Anal and scat are both big turn-offs for me. So is any kind of cruelty or abuse (except light to moderate hand-spanking or slapping, but even then, only when a woman does it. Total turn-off for me if a man is doing that.) Not that big on fetish clothing either (weird leather outfits and suchlike don't do a lot for me). I'm OK-ish with feet though. And I find a pair of pretty feminine feet in open-toed shoes like sandals quite sexy. Definitely wouldn't say I have a foot fetish though. The thought of giving a woman a foot massage doesn't do much for me, nor does the thought of kissing feet, but if a woman wants to play "footsies" under a table, I'm down with that in the right circumstances.

    Agree also about porn with excessive swearing (that goes for stories as well). If it's just sex and swearing without any sort of plot or character development, it leaves me cold.

    Anything non-consensual (other than maybe a hand-spanking given by a woman) is a COMPLETE turn-off. Most BDSM (spanking aside) doesn't interest me. Like a lot of straight guys, I find lesbians hot, and two dudes going at it, not. Actually, I don't particularly enjoy the site of a woman performing fellatio (because I don't particularly want to see that big dick, ya know?). So I tend to skim over those sorts of pictures.

    Controlling, narcissistic or generally rude behaviour is another guaranteed turn-off with me.
     
  2. itsbubbababy

    itsbubbababy Trusted Member

    Being asked if I am liking it or if I am ready to finish. Total mood killer.
     
  3. Salamigubben

    Salamigubben Trusted Member

    Smoking. I don't understand why people does that to them selves and to others around them.
     
  4. Dayani

    Dayani New Member

    Shitty behavior really turns me off
     
  5. 123Lurker

    123Lurker Account Deleted

    Lmao same
     
  6. carottegéante

    carottegéante New Member

    I never understood the point of fart fetichism, it kinds of really turns me off
     
  7. hrnybro

    hrnybro New Member

    Blood and pain
     
  8. Gunslinger

    Gunslinger Trusted.Member

    toilet play
    smoking
    unhygienic people/those who don't shower and stink
     
  9. PatiriciaJ

    PatiriciaJ Trusted Member

    Noise, arrogance and rudenesss in general. And stupidity. They often go together.
     
  10. SecretWishes

    SecretWishes Trusted.Member

    TOO true! ;) Well... I would change noise to excessive noise.

    -SW
     
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  11. curiousFred

    curiousFred Trusted.Member

    Violence of any kind is a big turn off for me, I have experienced enough of it in my younger years.
    It is impossible for me to either forgive or forget.
     
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  12. SecretWishes

    SecretWishes Trusted.Member

    Does sparring count? My brother and I both practice martial arts...
     
  13. The_Architect11

    The_Architect11 Trusted Member

    Feet, especially when people suck on them
     
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  14. PeterThePiper

    PeterThePiper Trusted.Member

    Yes, i am with you on this. I think of ALL the porn genres, this is the only one that neither myself or Jennifer have any interest in what so ever.
     
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  15. Gunslinger

    Gunslinger Trusted.Member

    unhygiene people...people who don't take couple of showers daily when they have the facility
    smelly, unclean pussy
     
  16. rmpa53

    rmpa53 Trusted Member

    For me its excess hair in places
     
  17. LizzyHyde

    LizzyHyde Trusted Member

    Politics and stupidity (those often go hand in hand), non consent, and blood
     
  18. niceguy

    niceguy Trusted Member

    Gay sex. Anything involving 2 penises
     
  19. Mary Smyth

    Mary Smyth Bi Swinging family feel free to chat

    Softcore porn and censorship. Guys that can not keep hard during a fuck
     
  20. Allinthefamily89

    Allinthefamily89 Trusted Member

    Being vanilla
    Excessive hair on arms/legs/face (if female)
    that vinegar crotch smell when it ain't been washed in days.
     
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