Looking for Your Comments about the Forum, Good or Bad.

I think I already like how things are right now, except a little change in banners, yk more sexy banners with a little more provocative caption regarding incest stuff.

 

Everything is good, I just wish my 10 days were over...lol.. not being impatient...
Having a good time picking out which I want to read first... I have alot in mind to share as well, I hope y'all enjoy
Well, I look forward in reading wild fantasies! Thank you

 

GOod job on Security. I forgot my password and y'all did a good job locking me out after x number of attempts.

 

A moderator should be the one who enforces the ID rules first, you can't not enforce the rules and disrespect people and abuse your power in a personal way and then demand that others enforce the ID rules.

 

Only joined today, but all good so far x

 

If you are asking for respect, my question is, is this respect?

You should not ask for respect, you should demand respect from a moderator who is the one who has started the disrespect.

 

That is an *opinion*. It is neither attacking an individual nor a group. as such it is difficult to consider it DISrespectful.
While it could certainly be worded more graciously, the moderators are normal people too, and get to express those opinions in the same ways as the rest of us.
Respect aught to be presumed, rather than demanded. It is something to be lost, and it can not be merely insisted back. that's not how respect works.
This, of course, is merely the *opinion* of another ordinary forum user. I know not everyone starts from the same position I do.
and respect that.

 

Appreciating your response, I can only say that I find myself in clear disagreement with you. Respect should come naturally, but when it does not, it should be demanded. Dreams is not the moderators, it is the members who actively participate with their comments and photos and those members should be respected and, if it is not the case, then we would enter the field of demand. It is the same as a law, you can comply with it as a matter of course, otherwise you will be required to comply with it. In addition to this simple question, there are also the rules of the forum itself and the moderator must be the first to comply with them, otherwise he/she would not have the ethics and morals to demand that the other members of this site comply with them.

(12) Keeping it Civil

• While debating and discussion is fine, we will not tolerate rudeness, insulting posts, racist comments, personal attacks or purposeless inflammatory posts or private messages.

Go back and read what that moderator wrote and tell me if he/she follows that rule.

"If you want to know a person, give him power", Confucius (5511 - 479 B.C.)

 

It is not right that in a closed thread a moderator can write and the person affected by his words cannot reply to him.

Nor is it right that if a moderator makes an accusation and is politely asked to show the words to back up his accusation, he only gets silence.

 

"We currently have about 4 members who are keeping that forum from being peaceful."


Who are these 4 people? And what exactly are they doing to disrupt the forum in such a serious way? I confess that I don't expect an answer. The questions are only meant to provoke thought.

 

Can I tell a story in this thread? It is a short story. And maybe it illustrates well what is happening now... But if I can't do that, I want to make clear my opinion about the recent facts: All of you (specifically, those who listed these 4 problematic members) are being unfair.

It's not a challenge, it's just my opinion.

 

Well, i'm new in the forum so i don't have anything much to say. Maybe the only thing might be the wait of the 10 days to be a trusted member, 6 or 7 looks good for me but anyway, i like forum.

 

Good Job

 

I like how things are already. As for "What can we do to improve the forum?" : I think it'll be nice if we have a section specifically about finding like-minded people to befriend and become buddies with, much more specific than Personal Ads. I for example, would really like to meet others who are into mom-son, who would want to become discord buddies with me, we can also become gaming/anime buddies.

 

Sorry, but we cannot become a "craigslist" as I am sure you are aware of the legal battles that ensued after the "craigslist murders".
We are not a "hook-up" site.

We are a fantasy forum that exists to allow like minded people to express and convey their position and experience involving loving incest.

 

1. I have never used craigslist nor have I ever heard of "craigslist murders", so no, I'm not aware of it.
2. I'm not looking for a "hook-up" and wasn't looking for it either.
3. Yes I know. I wasn't trying to attack or criticize anyone. What I posted was a suggestion, not an order or a request, so there's no need to accuse me of "looking for a hook up" or make it seems like I'm a potential murderer. If you don't want to change or add anything about the forum, that is completely fine and I understand.

 

I think I have been here on this site long enough now to finally make an observation. For me personally I have loved everything about this forum. The most important factor for me is, mods of this site has struck the right balance between being too strict or too loose. Kudos to the mods (and the users) for making this a fun, clean and safe forum.

So in my opinion, I wouldn't change a thing.