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Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Curmudgeon, Feb 19, 2019.

  1. LegLover

    LegLover Trusted.Member

    Wanted to wait a bit after joining before I commented here, sort of feel my way around for awhile first.

    Comment:
    I found this site through reddit. The mods seem sane and nice (unlike SpaceFuckers) and I'm very happy here. I can see why Amanda ended up at SpaceFuckers and why she is doing well there. I would imagine that she was more controversial here.

    What's good:
    I think that this is a very friendly site and one of the reasons for that I believe is that it is much more welcoming to women. And by that I mean that it's not the turn-off to women that many sites are. There is a larger percentage of women here then one would expect on a site like this and that's a good thing in so many respects.

    What could end up being not so good:
    The fact that this site is much more welcoming to women then most sites. Now let me explain.

    Women tend to take over things by excluding males or making things uncomfortable so that males will want to leave. I give you the YMCA as an example. There used to be YMCA's and YWCA's. After they combined, women wanted to bring in the kids and now it is run by women for women and kids. YMCA management has to be a great majority women and the membership must be made up of the same great majority of women and kids. I notice that they want to be known as "The Y" now and want people to forget the proper title of Young Men's Christian Association. Bottom line, the men were pretty much eased out.

    I read this whole thread and noticed the women with their "let's get rid of these guys for this and those guys for that, and those guys because they like the porn aspect" and the "I'm keeping an eye on these type of guys" etc. Look, women and men think differently. Men don't want women to be more like men but it seems that women are always wishing that men were more like women.

    Just saying the site has to watch that it doesn't eventually tip over center and get TOO female centric and the men start to feel like they are being eased out.

    Idea for improvement:
    I notice that at SpaceFuckers they have a women only section where men cannot post. I think that's a great idea. Would it be a good idea for this site too?

    Ok, I'll sit back now and take what's coming. Give me hell, but really, think about it.
     
  2. Curmudgeon

    Curmudgeon Moderator Staff Member

    Based on profile settings this forum is about 55% male, 40% unspecified, and 5% female.

    We do have a forum for woman only. Unlike Spacefucker, it's hidden from non-female members.
     
  3. ornery

    ornery Trusted Member

    A Friendly site for sure. I concur with other members that have mentioned the feat that is your troll patrol (paTroll?). You all do a great job.
    I like exploring the history and seeing the changes over time... I know that as someone within the incest world, I am inherently more open minded than the average joe. But i find myself pretty alone even amongst people who have “kinks”. It makes for a nice change to see others here who are legit just talking and sharing openly.
    So, thanks for being here! I know it takes a ton of work to keep this up. It’s appreciated.

    (This site is the closet thing I have to a “Home Page”. I switched (like most) to the “use blank” option way back on Windows XP (c.2003)!
     
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  4. Bobman

    Bobman Trusted Member

    I’m new so I don’t know.
     
  5. Jesse mike

    Jesse mike New Member

    Its been a nice experience
     
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  6. bill g

    bill g Trusted Member

    Hi. New here. 2 days.
    Right:forum seems huge with a ton of posts and people seem friendly
    Wrong: no idea, I'm new...lol
    Improvement: make the Trusted Member time 5 days instead of 10...lol
     
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  7. Curmudgeon

    Curmudgeon Moderator Staff Member

    This forum has gone from invitation only, to 45 days, to 40 days, to 15 days, to 10 days. Staff needs some time to evaluate new members prior to them gaining access to certain parts of the forum. I don't expect the waiting period to decrease but it could eventually be increased if needed.
     
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  8. ornery

    ornery Trusted Member

    Haha, :rolleyes: yikes...
    As for me and the 10 days, I appreciated it. I really like this forum...I haven’t talked to many actual people, but the vibe is good.
     
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  9. SarcasticBeggar21

    SarcasticBeggar21 Trusted Member

    Im new here so I haven’t gotten to explore a whole lot but from the looks of it, it seems easy to maneuver and like a safe environment. Definitely excited to explore more!
     
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  10. Munkey86

    Munkey86 New Member

    The 10 comment thing is abit much?
     
  11. someone_somewhere

    someone_somewhere Trusted Member

    First I'm very pleased with the mobile version. The button to navigate sites could be a bit bigger for my fingers but that's something very personal.
    The restriction at the beginning is something very good even if I hate to wait.

    I haven't seen something you are doing wrong right now. And I am pretty sure it will stay like this. This forum is amasing.

    What I for myself would like is a screen option for longer threads e.g. only show original poster's posts.
     
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  12. TriadSibling

    TriadSibling Bro/Sis Enthusiast

    The minimum comment count helps us to keep the forum as safe as possible, while also giving new users the opportunity to interact with the rest of the community. The site's restrictions used to be much more involved, and at present, the current setup works best for us to help continue providing the welcoming and safe environment that we maintain.

    Having said that, we appreciate the feedback, and will take it into consideration, should the admin desire to change the requirements in the future.
     
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  13. Blacbrotha

    Blacbrotha Trusted Member

    The forums are very good here
     
  14. Yussiii

    Yussiii Trusted Member

    I like the mood here. People are really supportive.

    On the technical side I am pleased with the mobile version. But i don't have much experience right now,I will report anything that catches my attention.
     
  15. sal123456

    sal123456 Trusted Member

    leave them like they are
     
  16. BayBoy

    BayBoy Trusted Member

    Not bad from what I can tell so far, can't really see much as a new member though.
    I've been a member of spacefucker for awhile now and just found this site, and I have to say, you start off with FAR less access here than you do there.
    I can't look at anything really yet here accept for general off topic discussions and personal ads, everything else is off limits.
    There when you start out you can see everything you just can't message anyone right away but can still look at forums and photos posted by members.
     
  17. Curmudgeon

    Curmudgeon Moderator Staff Member

    The management style of Spacefucker and Ins-Dream are different.
    Which is better is a matter of opinion.

    At lns-Dream you will gain full access with 10 posts and 10 days.
    At Spacefucker it takes 2o days and either 100 posts or 30 posts and 100 likes.
     
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  18. Harris89

    Harris89 Trusted Member

    First day here and pretty surprised how smooth everything works. Also about 10 posts and 10 days - mb bit harsh but still its reasonable decision and everyone understands why it should be done
     
  19. Pornloginyo13

    Pornloginyo13 Trusted Member

    I can't say much since I'm a new member, but stumbling on this forum was pretty awesome
     
  20. Fuck9923

    Fuck9923 Trusted Member

    Nice place thank