Have you ever brought up incest with your SO? Any dating tips with that as a longterm goal?

Extremely curious. Currently single and always wondered what the best approach would be, given the taboo nature of it.

 

Yes, told her about it when I felt I could trust her completely as well as the how and why I feel the way I do about my half sister. As I didn't grow up with my sister, and only found out I wasn't alone without siblings until I was 19. My wife's initial reaction was of course disgust but as she let me talk it turned into acceptance. However that changed the moment she met my sister as it erupted into full blown lust as she now wants to fuck her more than I do.

However this is my own situation and would advise using your own best judgement in your situation.

 

While we were still dating, I told my wife about all of my incest skeletons. No secrets. Only way to build a solid relationship. She too was surprised but understanding. She just wanted to know if it was still happening. It wasn’t. However, as I was still in the dating phase, I didn’t tell her I wanted my nieces and fuck it all up.

 

My SO enjoys it with me.

 

No. It’s a special bond hat I share only with my sister.

 

Low key trying to get my fiancé to let me and my stepsister use her lol. Stepsister is HELLA into it, I am too, fiancé is a bit of a different story lol.

 

It was my SO that started the conversation, after a few drinks we were talking about sex and our fantasies and she brought up about what went on between her and her stepdad. It was the first time id felt comfortable to share with someone about what went on in my family

 

I did once very gently talk about it and they were very off put by the idea unfortunately.
Its a shame as they have a huge family and i think they are already super close.

 

I plan on telling my wife about my sexual relationship with mom soon.