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Have you told your significant other?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Xplozif, Apr 25, 2019.

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  1. curiousFred

    curiousFred Trusted.Member

    My wife maintained that she never had any fantasies, but she knows that I have lots.
    She seems to be more open now she is older and maybe just a little wiser.
    She may also regret since she cut me off, our relationship was never the same.
     
  2. DAEMON69

    DAEMON69 New Member

    Told my wife i wouldnt mind doing with her son. she was good with it,.
     
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  3. pleaseunderstand

    pleaseunderstand New Member

    I wish I could find a match that was like minded. I don't know how to bring it up to my so because I don't want the shitstorm that will likely come with it.
     
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  4. Mr. Georg

    Mr. Georg Trusted Member

    - My girlfriend used to change in front of her older brother when I met her, she had 23 yo, and she used to tell me that if people didn't know they where siblings, they would think of them as a couple.
    - She also told me a couple of times that she believed her brother had a big cock, and used to taunt me that I "sure checked out my sister's big tits in the past".
    - Some day I accidentally found a nude of my sister on her iPad and told my GF. I told her that it took me a bit to find out it was her (her face was not visible on the pic) and had "uncomfortable erection" (I said that just to save appereances, of course) and she just laughed and said jokingly that I was lying and probably masturbated till I came before I found out it was her.
    - On another occasion (when we started dating) she told me she wanted a boob job (she is very insecure about her boobs) and that she would ask her brother to feel them after she had one.
    - Once I said that I should ask my sister to let me feel her boobs before my GF makes a decision regarding a boob job (my sister has one) and she just laughed.
    - At another time she told me that her brother's perfume was very sexy and send me lots of heart emoticons...so I jokingly said "even enough to seduce your own sister?" and she said "yes xd xd xd".
    - BTW, me and her brother are very, very similar, to the point that she joked once that she is "incestuous" for that reason.

    Now that I think about, if I was not into incest and was your regular vanilla guy I probably would have run away from her hahahaha.
    The list could go on for a long time, but these kind of comments became less and less frequent as time passed (maybe I helped her to distract her lust from her bro, if she indeed is/was into incest?) but she never seemed uncomfortable about incest at all.

    The last one was a couple of days ago...we where talking about the fact that men are more easily turned on for everything, so we usually have a higher sex-drive. She asked me if I wanted to have sex everytime I saw a hot woman. I said yes and then she said "...like when you see your sister's tits, you want to have sex, kinda like incest?" You see, my sis is breastfeeding so I get to see her in all her glory quite often, and my GF knows that. I answered something like "yes, I mean, you can't control what your dick does lol" and she said "omg lol I don't know Rick, seems fake".

    So yeah, my GF might be into incest but neither of us ever had the guts to go further and actually say it haha.

    Meanwhile I enjoy imagining her fucking her brother, both of us having a threesome with my sister, etc...
     
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  5. IsoUser

    IsoUser Trusted.Member

    My first girlfriend as well as my ex wife told me that their own dad's had been their first lover's. I didn't care
     
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  6. Mary Smyth

    Mary Smyth Bi Swinging family feel free to chat

    I have told the odd lover over the years most were ok with it and turned on by it. Any swinger people that we have played with were always up for incest.
     
  7. IsoUser

    IsoUser Trusted.Member

    My ex wife got extremely jealous and watched me like a hawk around family members lol
     
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  8. Elisabeth Jung

    Elisabeth Jung Trusted.Member

    We have dirty talking while fucking and know our secret perversions
     
  9. Brutus58

    Brutus58 Trusted.Member

    What about now? Have you re-married?
     
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  10. Elisabeth Jung

    Elisabeth Jung Trusted.Member

    no, i have some friends and an intimate girlfriend, no fixation on family alone
     
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  11. mysticdragons00

    mysticdragons00 Account Deleted

    i hid it at first but slowly after some liquid courage for both of us over many months, we would talk about it as a turn on. lately we have not needed the liquid courage and talk about different thoughts we have, but overall i told my other half. she told me. we are both very into incest
     
  12. Sherman

    Sherman Account Deleted

    When my girlfriend moved in with me 8 years ago, she found my porn stash - largely comprised of the Taboo series and the like. There was a brief discussion of how I've never had incest, but it can make for great fantasy. That was pretty much the end of it.

    We got married 3 years ago.

    And she knows that I would totally fuck any of her 3 sisters if they were down.
     
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  13. macpaifonne

    macpaifonne Trusted Member

    Hi,
    I told my ex wife and she was pretty non plussed about it. She didn't do or say anything to encourage or discourage it so I let the topic just drop. It was like it never happened. We broke up years later because she was cheating, and I get a little nervous that she'll use this reveal against me somehow.
     
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  14. CuriousMushroom

    CuriousMushroom Account Deleted

    If you want to talk to your s/o about such a touchy subject, make sure you know and trust them before you do. Some people can get really touchy about stuff that we don't even bat an eye at. And try to get a read on their expression and body language if you start talking about it openly.
    With me, it was my husband who brought it up. He approached it gently from a different angle than just outright declaring his interest, and I was able to read between the lines that he had an attraction for our daughters and wanted to explore that for a variety of reasons. I let him pursue it as long as I was on hand to make sure everything was done in a way my girls and myself were comfortable with. It worked out because we were all on the same page and able to communicate honestly.
     
  15. Elisabeth Jung

    Elisabeth Jung Trusted.Member

    it should always be by mutual agreement and interest should come from the other side when one is a parent
     
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  16. Danny Boy 1966

    Danny Boy 1966 Trusted.Member

    I've also found that swingers are more open to the idea of incest, and often found that most of them had engaged in, or were still engaged in incest.

    As for me, my first wife wouldn't even talk about it at all, actually acted like it was sick. Come to find out 20+ years after our divorce that she had been fucking both of her brothers for years before we got together. The reason for our divorce is a long story.

    My second wife was totally open to swinging and incest. In fact she was the one to bring the subject up to me, and we both came clean about our past, and what we still desired. Her and her brother had been playing together off and on since high school whenever they were between relationships. I told her all about my Mom, Aunt, and 2 cousins, and how one of my cousins and I still get together like her and her brother. Needless to say we all had many happy times together, too many to mention here.

    My third wife wasn't into it at all, in fact the cold cunt turned ice cold as far as any sex as soon as she got pregnant with our son. Before she got pregnant we fucked like rabbits, then all of a sudden it just ended, couldn't even beg any out of her. Finally after 10 years I couldn't take any more of it and we broke up, finally ending in divorce. If only she knew what her daughter and now my sister and I have been doing since our break up she would kill us all.
     
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  17. In The Lifestyle

    In The Lifestyle Trusted.Member

    I was open with my other half about my sister and myself, she was abit shocked at first but the more we spoke about stuff the more I felt she was getting horny over it.

    We started talking about her twin sister which she admitted really turned her on.
    We've spoke about her twin lots of times and role played that her twin had joined us for a threesome and my partner was eating her twins pussy as I was fucking my partner.

    We discuss incest often.
     
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  18. Skrillex2020

    Skrillex2020 Trusted Member

    I've only ever brought it up with one girlfriend, but I mentioned it along with several other kinks and me being Generally Kinky. We broke up not long after, so I may have scared her off. Probably for the best!
     
  19. D.C. Barnet

    D.C. Barnet Trusted.Member

    Tragic that people are afraid to communicate with the ones that are closest to them . . .
     
  20. D.C. Barnet

    D.C. Barnet Trusted.Member

    "Communication and Consent!"
     
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